Making the Decision

When you decide you want to be a "Sugar Baby" you should think about what that term means to you. Some girls decide that, for them, it involves prostitution. Others think it means they are more of a girlfriend, a FWB, or an arrangement of how many times you meet your Sugar Daddy per month. Sometimes you will get the opportunity to have more than one or maybe all you want is one. Decide what will work for you!

ALSO- Because this is an important question everyone always wonders…Do you have to have sex with them?
NO, NEVER. Sex is ALWAYS your choice. Never let anyone, especially because money or expensive shit is on the table, pressure you to have sex with them!

This is important because once you know, finding the right Daddy is easier and you can tell them specifically what you want! Some Daddies will have their own ideas too about what they want, and you’ll find you aren’t compatible and no more time will be wasted. Time is important, more about that later!

Once you start the search, there are pleeeeeeenty of websites you can start making profiles on. I won’t list them here, all you need to do is Google. You can make profiles on however many sites you like. Find the ones you like best and stick to them, some work differently than others and some cost money, but generally profiles for sugar babies are free! Realistically you can’t keep track of profiles on every site, it’s very time consuming once you get into it. I personally have two profiles and that is enough for me!

Now once you make your profile, a few things you need to keep in mind. I find that the profile you create makes a difference in what kind of attention you get and what type of men you’ll get attention from. First of all, not every guy on these sites are real, legit, Sugar Daddies. Some are scumbags, perverts, assholes, broke losers… dudes just trolling for prostitutes and will approach you as such! If that’s the kind of attention you want, that’s fine and you’ll be successful, but it is also illegal and you need to watch out for cops trying to catch you offering sex for money and more importantly, your safety!
So, anyway, your profile should reflect what you want. If you post a racy, naked, or sexy picture, you’re going to get a LOT of attention from a LOT of men on the sites. Which can be very good, obviously, but the more time you have to weed through the guys who aren’t serious, aren’t a match, and who are probably fakes or pervs, or pic collectors, to find the REAL Daddies! I have noticed when you post a good picture of yourself, one with good lighting, size, shows your pretty face and enough of your body to show off your body type, aaand flattering angles ;) You can also get a LOT of attention from men and then some of the responses you get won’t be pervy comments on your hot bod and the gross things they want to do to it.  A shitty picture or no picture at all honestly won’t say much about you and you’ll get less exposure. Wouldn’t you be less inclined to click on a profile if there was no picture? Yup. Oh and I’m saying this out of the goodness of my heart and because I don’t want you to look like a hot mess. If you use a picture where you can see your bedroom/bathroom/whatev….MAKE SURE IT’S CLEAN. No one wants to see your dirty laundry and trash on your bedroom floor, crap in your bathroom and a dirty sink mirror with toothpaste splatters on it, seriously. EVERYONE looks at that shit :) you know you do too!

Now that you have a picture, you have to fill out the descriptions of your profile! This is also time consuming. I find it best not to lie on these things because when it comes to meeting they find out you’re really not thin and you’re a bit bigger than that. (I’ve heard Daddies tell me this, lol) They ask you the pertinent details like age, looks, etc. Then usually ask you to talk about yourself and then what you’re looking for in a sugar daddy. I have made profiles that were non-descriptive and didn’t show a lot of personality, to profiles that are detailed and show off, at least through writing, what kind of person I am. It DOES make a difference! It’s easier to tell when someone has actually read your profile and is interested in you, versus a boring and generic response from them, like “hey sexy, we should meet.” When I have gotten compliments from my Daddies telling me how smart or funny or well written my profile was which is what attracted them to me in the beginning.  It ALL starts with the profile, so keep that in mind! Trash attracts trash, class attracts class ladies!

Now your profile is made and you’re probably getting hit up a ton, right? ;)
Well, messages and responses from men vary. You’ll begin to tell the difference between the men who are classy and established, looking for a legit Sugar Baby to the ones who seem kinda bored or are looking for a sex for cash deal. They’ll want to email you directly instead of through the site. I have set up separate email accounts for all my Sugar stuff. It’s a good idea so you don’t get it mixed up with your real life. If not by email, they’ll ask to talk to you on the phone or text. I personally hate giving my number out to a Daddy unless I am serious about meeting up with him. I hate giving out my number. But there’s this wonderful thing called Google Voice! You can use it with your phone and it will show a new number so you can do that as well and feel safe about it. Though I have given my number out only to waste my time with boring texts and being asked for “sexy pics.” Uhh…no.
So it is all what works best for you and makes you comfortable. At no point should a real Sugar Daddy be pushy or pressuring you into ANYTHING, don’t forget. Have Fun!! XOXO